Archive | April, 2008

Pregnancy dreams

29 Apr

I am at a banquet luncheon, at a table, alone, finishing off my plate.  Suddenly there is someone next to me.  He’s sitting down beside me.  Dark hair, sparkling eyes.  Not huge, but fit.

“You were fabulous the other night,” he says.  “You sounded great.  And you looked terrific.”  He has a perfect smile.

“Thank you,” I murmur.  I am flustered, flattered, shy.

He talks for a minute more before introducing himself.  “I’m Brent Bambury, by the way,”  he says.  I am taken aback.  Brent Bambury is the host of CBC’s radio show “Go!”, but this guy looks nothing like what I think Brent Bambury looks like.  Did I say that out loud?  I’m not sure.  He looks amused and also perhaps slightly offended.

He talks some more about the concert, commenting on specific songs.  He leans in, his nose brushes my ear, oh-so-lightly.  I feel his warm breath on my cheek.  It’s a good thing I’m sitting because I am weak in the knees and I’m shaking.  I’m having a hard time breathing.

Practically choking on my own libido, I turn to him, smile a brilliant smile, and say, “I’m very flattered.  But I’m married.”  I leave the table, still thrumming.  I hope I don’t fall over.

Now, I ask you, if you can’t let yourself go in a dream, where can you let yourself go?  And for the record, I do enjoy Go! but I don’t have a crush on Brent Bambury.  Here’s a pic of him, in case you’re curious.  Nope, that’s not the guy from my dream.

Dreams during pregnancy are well-known to be extra vivid and emotional.  That can be fun.  But stuff like this just leaves me frustrated.  Now please excuse me while I go make some extra-strong… sigh… tea.

Random weekend updates

28 Apr
  1. Saturday was a chaotically busy day.  Jade had had a bad night, Michael had come down with some nasty bug, and there was a house to get clean before the big evening at the Arts Centre.  We basically spent the day tag-teaming on naps and cleaning.  I realized I was pushing myself a bit too hard when I suddenly got dizzy and threw up in the kitchen sink.  Thank goodness everything got done, though, except for poor Nanuq not getting a walk.
  2. Big Band at the Arts Centre April 26th

  3. The Big Band dance was fun!  We didn’t have a huge turnout (it was a very busy weekend for events) but the people who were there had fun, the band played well, and I was happy with my performance overall.  Plus I got to wear my fabulous new red dress, so how could I not feel great?!  I only wish I could have had a bit of it recorded so that I could share it with my parents.  And with you, of course!
  4. Brunch on Sunday with the band was terrific; one family sadly couldn’t come because of Jade’s chicken pox, but everyone else braved the virulent household to enjoy way more food than anyone would normally eat for breakfast.  But isn’t that what brunch is all about?  Afterward, Michael and I both collapsed on the couches and were grateful that Jade had an extra-long nap.
  5. Michael left today for Nahanni Butte, so I’m on my own for a week again.  At least single-parenting seems easier when the weather is milder, daylight is longer, and Jade’s bedtime is slightly more flexible.  It’s always the dog-walking that gets me stressed out.  Now that I can take the bike out, it doesn’t have to take as long to give him a good workout.
  6. Speaking of biking, I took my bike out for the first time this season.  I decided to do a loop around Copper Ridge, and my heart hasn’t pounded that much in a long time.  I don’t think it’s just because Jade is heavier this year, either.  Nope, I’m definitely out of shape after a winter of low activity.  I’d chosen to follow Hamilton Boulevard and Falcon Drive because it wouldn’t be as steep as Two-Mile Hill, but even still, I had my ass kicked.  And I feel it, too.  Except for the saddle-sore part, though, it feels good.
  7. This is what Jade did after we got home from biking.  She wanted to stay outside, so I made sure all the gates were closed so that I could go in and scare up some supper.   She has PJs on under her coat; I left her in jammies all day so that she’d have a harder time scratching her spots, and this is what I get for that.  That garden box was completely sodden.  Jade was having a grand time, though.  I think she was planting Cheerios.
  8. Jade planting Cheerios

  9. Jade’s chicken pox are progressing.  She doesn’t have a really severe case, but has somewhere between 30 and 40 spots, which is supposed to be a good thing as far as future immunity goes.  She hasn’t been too miserable, although last night was a doozie.  She woke up itchy around 2 or 3 a.m. and even with a slathering of calamine, the only way to get her back to sleep was with a bottle of milk, which we never do anymore.  It worked like a charm, though.  Until she woke up with a soaking diaper at 5 a.m. and wanted to sleep in our bed, and then wanted to sleep in the big armchair in her room.  She finally went back to sleep an hour later and stayed asleep until 9, which is two hours later than usual.
  10. I wished I could stay in bed, but we had an appointment with Heather the midwife at 8:30 in the morning.  I am a big believer in midwifery, but strangely had put off contacting either Heather or Christina until this weekend.  I don’t know why I’d been feeling reticent; maybe because of all the uncertainty at the beginning of this pregnancy.  We had a great consultation with Heather, learning a bit more about her philosophy, scope of practice, training, and limitations.  She also made a great suggestion about putting some ground-up oatmeal in a sock to use in the bath to help soothe Jade’s itchiness.
  11. Jade loved the oatmeal-filled sock!  I hunted out a pair of ugly white athletic socks that I won’t be sad to toss if the oatmeal doesn’t come out in the wash.  It sure gets slimy after a bit of soaking in the warm water, but I guess that’s what’s so soothing.
  12. Now I’m thinking I’d love to get my saddle-sore butt into the bath, too, but it’s rather late, so I think I’ll just head for bed after I sign off.  Good night, all!

I’m a geek

24 Apr

Yesterday as I was driving to work, my mind turned once again to the fuel consumption gauge on our car.  It said that our average fuel consumption was about 10.5 km/L (just about 25MPG for you folks south of the 49th).  I wondered how that compared to our previous Volvo, but in that car, the fuel consumption was expressed as L per 100 km.  I could remember that our average in that car was about 8.5 L / 100 km, but had no idea if we were doing better or worse.  I’d been meaning to attempt a conversion ever since we got the new car, but would always forget about it by the time I got to wherever I was going.  Yesterday, though, I suddenly thought of it again at lunchtime, so I got out a scrap piece of paper and started scribbling equations.

PROBLEM A

10.5 km =    x L     
     1L         100 km

PROBLEM B

  8.5 L    =   x km  
100 km        1 L

I don’t remember precisely when we started doing algebra in school (around grade 5 or 6?) but I do remember wondering, after we’d been at it for a year or more, whether math was ever going to be anything other than algebra ever again.  What, aren’t we done with this stupid algebra stuff yet?  Math was by far my least favourite (and worst) subject.

And yet now I positively delight in real-world algebra problem.  And I enjoy long division and multiplication, too.  Although I can generally work out an approximate 15% tip in my head in a few seconds, I actually love doodling the problem on a restaurant napkin.  Nothing’s more fun than multiplying by 1.15!  What the heck has happened to me?

On the other hand, I shudder when I think about mentally converting Fahrenheit to Celsius and although I’ve started to get a feel for that bizarre empirical system, it’s only because the Volvo dealership in Bellingham, WA (where the car was purchased) wasn’t able to convert the thermometer to metric units.  And so I am being forced to look at Fahrenheit every day.  I still say you Fahrenheit people are weird.

Well, I know you’re all dying to know the answers, so I’ll put you out of your misery.  Actually, the way I originally wrote out the equations didn’t really make sense, so ignore them; I finally figured out I just had to take the inverse of each ratio (and multiply by 100 in the first case).  Clear as mud?  Whatever, the answer is that with the old Volvo, we were getting about 11.7 km/L.  So we were doing a little better with the old Volvo, but it had one less cylinder and we did only highway driving, so I guess it’s pretty comparable.

Anyway, the point is, I just as much of a geek as I ever was in my entire life.  I’m still a bookworm.  I still wear glasses.  My fashion sense is still a little sketchy.  (But thank God I no longer wear braces and the skin situation has cleared up!)  There were times when I was growing up that I paid for my geekdom, but now I like to think that it contributed to the wonderfully compassionate nature I have today.  (And, you know, modest, too!  Ha!)  The great thing is, being a geek when you’re an adult… isn’t such a bad thing.

A pox on our house

22 Apr

When I stepped into the daycare this afternoon (late, because I was feverishly trying to finish something at work) one of the workers said, “We think we found a few more spots on Jade, so she won’t be able to come into the daycare tomorrow without a doctor’s note.”

Upstairs in the toddler room, we looked Jade over and sure enough, she seems to be getting a number of spots on her back and her legs.  So it looks like this might be it, after all.  As I said before, this is not upsetting to me, as I’d like her to get this childhood disease over with once and for all.  The only thing I am a bit concerned about is the party at our house on Sunday morning.  This is kind of a post-gig celebration, after the big dance on Saturday night, and I don’t mind hosting it, even if Jade is covered in spots.  I just hope everyone who wanted to come is immune to chicken pox.  I sent an e-mail out to everyone to let them know so that we don’t infect anyone who doesn’t want to be infected; I’m hoping I don’t get any e-mails back!

I guess our house is now technically under quarantine.  I remember reading that in the old days, houses that were under quarantine had to put yellow flags up in their windows.  Apparently, this is something ships still have to do.  Think anyone would get it?

You asked, part 3

20 Apr

Michael’s back was sore when he went to bed last night, and this morning, he almost couldn’t get out of bed.  My leg was asleep, so we were both moaning as we struggled to meet the day.  I guess this is what people don’t like about getting older.  Ha!  Not that a numb leg is a sign of age, just sleeping in a funny position (on a large mound of pillows in an effort stave off pregnancy-induced heartburn).  It turns out Jade has a temperature today, so I feel like I’m surrounded by invalids. 

Jade’s down for her nap, Michael’s relaxing his back on the couch in front of the boob tube, I finally finished the tax returns last night, and I’m actually not sleepy for once, even though I’m still in pajamas.  I was momentarily at a loss for what to do with myself.  Good gracious, time at the computer that doesn’t come in snatches?  This is unheard of!

And so, I am finally getting back to those questions you asked me, way back on, like, April 10th.  Goodness, that’s like the Dark Ages, isn’t it?

Let’s start with the easy ones, shall we?

Michael of Michael’s Meanderings asked, “What’s your favourite thing about your husband?”

Well, it’s certainly not his charming way of publicly fishing for compliments.  But I do admit that this kind of thing shows his playful nature, which is something I greatly appreciate.  That sense of fun and not being quite grown up when it comes to play makes him a veritable pied piper; he’s the one that kids flock to at parties, even, as at the last Fritzen family reunion in Germany, when they don’t even have a language in common.  I imagine that if there were more kids on our street, they’d come over to our house and ask him to come out to play.  I like that.

Marian, also known as Michael’s mom, asked, “When are you coming to visit? (hee hee)”

Hmm, why does this question sound familiar?  Oh, right, because we get asked it all the time!  Don’t worry, I know it’s ’cause we’re so lovable and you miss us.  But you didn’t really want me to answer that, did you?

And finally, Malva had a great question that I’ve been itching to get to: “My question is about northern living.  I don’t know where you are on a green scale, but I imagine you’re concerned about climate change.  So:  Do you think living in the Yukon can be sustainable?  And, what actions, if any, have you taken to try and reduce your ecological footprint?  What do you think could be done by someone who lives in the North to reduce their impact?”

That’s an interesting question, Malva, because I hadn’t really spent a lot of time thinking about it from this particular angle.

So, diving right in, what kinds of things have we done, personally, to reduce our ecological footprint?  Well, at our house, we recycle almost everything that can be recycled: paper, plastic, glass, aluminum, compost.  The fact that we usually have just one bag of garbage every two weeks for our household of three plus two pets is probably a pretty good indicator of how successful we are at that.  We used cloth diapers on Jade for as long as possible.  We bought a high-efficiency washer when the old one died.  We are a one-vehicle family and drive a relatively fuel-efficient car.  We have a programmable thermostat that turns the heat down at night in winter.  We weatherproof our house.  We use compact fluorescent bulbs, even in the chandeliers, which seemed unsightly at first, but I don’t even notice anymore.  We turn out the lights when we don’t use them.  I guess it’s not a spectacular contribution, but we do what we can.

What about the Yukon as a region?  People come to live in the Yukon for the lifestyle; they don’t want to see the forests and lakes die.  It’s our backyard and our playground.  And we’ve already seen some of the effects of global warming around here.  It’s definitely a matter of concern.

So what are some of the tangible ways of dealing with it?  Well, there’s the above-mentioned recycling program; the private non-profit society that runs it, Raven Recycling, is truly dedicated to the cause, and collects as much recyclable material as possible, despite the fact that many of these materials actually cost the organization money to collect.  It uses the profitable stuff, like white paper and aluminum cans, to subsidize the money-losers like mixed paper.  That mentality reflects the thinking of the community here, I believe.  I doubt there’s any city with a higher participation rate in recycling (and it’s not even curbside pick-up recycling), not to mention the muncipal composting program. 

The power in Whitehorse is drawn first from two wind turbines, next from the hydro-electric dam, and only when absolutely necessary are the diesel generators fired up, usually when we have a sustained period of -40 weather.

I admit that Whitehorse is a city that is challenging to get around by bus.  Take me as an example.  The bus runs right by my door and practically right to my place of work, yet I drive because in order to get Jade to daycare first, it would take a bus change and about two hours to do.  In my car, I can get her there and me to work in about 25 minutes.  And that includes the time it takes me to go inside with her.  But that takes me to my point that no matter where you live in Whitehorse, you’re unlikely to be more than a 20-minute drive from anywhere you want to go.  That is surely more efficient than the two-hour commute many southern city-dwellers commit every day.

I’ve never lived outside of Whitehorse in my time in the Yukon (the city contains two-thirds of the territory’s population, by the way) but I think I might have an inkling of the lifestyle in “the communities” (where the other third of the population lives) because of the four years we spent in Fort Liard.  The thing with living in a small place like that is, you see your place in the world more clearly.  When our lights were on, we knew the power was coming from the plant across the street (which was burning diesel).  When we used water, we knew that it had been treated at the treatment plant and trucked to our house.  You see where your garbage goes and you see the sewage lagoon and you know your contribution to it.  It’s so much easier, in a big city, to feel sealed off and above all that… crap.

Additionally, a lot of those communities still have a lot of the traditional lifestyle going on.  In Fort Liard, anyway, some of the families subsisted almost entirely on hunted meat.  You may or may not agree with hunting, but the truth is that responsible hunting has a much smaller environmental impact than a meat farm does.

To add to the lifestyle argument, it’s amazing the number of organic-produce farms there are in the Yukon.  In the summertime, you can get all your vegetables locally and organically grown, a bit of dairy, and in the fall you can get organic meat to stock the freezer with, too.

I’m not saying we don’t contribute to climate change issues.  We have people driving around in big empty trucks and SUVs, we have people who litter, and people who live in larger-than-absolutely-necessary homes (guilty there).  Probably 90% of what we buy is trucked up from the south, which is certainly energy-intensive.  We have longer and harsher winters that mean running our furnaces for longer.  But I think that if we had to be self-sustaining, we’d do a heck of a better job than Toronto at supplying our own food and not ravaging the land as we went about it.  There are only 30,000 of us up here in a land about half the size of Ontario; just by sheer numbers, that’s more sustainable than any place south of 60.

Well, well, I know I got a bit carried away there, but I just got so wrapped up in the topic.  Thanks for the great question, Malva, and if you have any rebuttals or more questions, please comment away.  I don’t pretend to be an expert on the subject, but, well, I think we do what we can.

Whew!  That concludes this very long post, but now I feel like I’ve filled a debt of some kind.  There’s nothing like feeling productive while sitting on your butt.

Swing into Spring!

17 Apr

So what if it snowed 5 cm last night? The sun is out for almost 15 hours these days and spring is definitely on it’s way! Now here’s your chance to celebrate spring in style!

Swing into Spring with The Big Band

I’m soooo excited that I’ll be singing at this next Big Band event! I’ve mentioned before how hyper I am after I come home from rehearsals on Monday nights, and I’m sure I’ll be the same after this dance, ’cause we’ll be doing 3 full sets (that’s 3 hours of live music!) of great tunes.

It’s been such a great experience for me, not only for the thrill of singing with a 16-piece band (I mean, how cool is that?!) but also stretching me to try things I haven’t done before. I’ve found that my vocal range has actually expanded, and I’m singing songs that I might previously have thought weren’t “my style”, that I didn’t think I could carry off, but are now favourites of mine.  (Here’s an example of one like that.)

Okay, okay, this dance isn’t all about me!  But I won’t be playing piano at all for this one, so you can’t blame me for being so focussed on the singing part!  One of the band’s former members is coming back to cover the piano.  It’s great watching him play; he goes about it much more intuitively than I do, and it’s inspiring to watch (not to mention fun to listen to!)  We’ll be playing, I believe, 33 tunes, and I’ll be singing for about half of them. The instrumentals will include standards like “In the Mood” and “Sing! Sing! Sing!” that everyone knows, even if they don’t know what they’re called.

Personally, I suck at dancing, so when I’m not singing, I’m looking forward to watching people at it; I’m not normally able to do that because when I’m at the piano, my eyes are glued to the notes on the page and to my fingers. There’s a set of pretty serious ballroom dancers in Whitehorse, and you can be sure they’ll be out; maybe I can pick up a move or two between vocal selections — ha, right!

Anyway, if you’re in Whitehorse, be sure to get your tickets soon. The last dance sold out, and we have fewer tickets for this event because there isn’t quite as much space at the Arts Centre.

Aaaaah! I’m psyched!

Yay! I’m it!

16 Apr

I’ve been feeling so much blog guilt for the past few days. I still have a great question from Malva from the Q&A post that I wanted to address, along with some silly questions from family (hi guys!). Plus I had a whole pile of things to say about Jade, with some cute pictures and videos, to boot. And then there are my ongoing pregnancy symptoms (I’ve already got a pooch starting — ack!) so different from my pregnancy with Jade.  So much bloggable fodder, so little energy.

But today I am ignoring all that because I got tagged with my first meme — hurray!  I feel so included now!  So thanks, McMommy, for asking me to play along.

This is the “7 Things” meme, and here are the rules:

  1. Link your tagger. Post the rules.
  2. Share 7 facts about yourself (random or weird)
  3. Tag 7 friends
  4. Leave a comment letting them know they have been tagged.

Let’s see if I can think of seven things you might not know about me…

1. I absolutely loooove to plan parties and events.  I think my dream job could be planning weddings and parties, but I’m too chicken to look into doing this seriously, especially in a market as small (and self-reliant) as Whitehorse.  I admit I’ve had a pretty bad track record since Jade was born; she hasn’t even really had a birthday party yet.  But!  We’ll be hosting a brunch for the Big Band at the end of this month and I am really looking forward to that.

2. Red is my absolute favourite colour.  Deep crimson, scarlet, blue-y reds.  (But you can keep the orangey ones.)  It shouldn’t be a surprise that when I had my colours done a few years ago, it turns out that I’m a “Winter”, and red is one of the best colours for me to wear.  Hurray!

3. I’ve slept outside in winter.  Well, not outside exactly, but we went winter camping and made a snow hut by piling the snow up, letting it set, and then digging it out.  It’s amazing how toasty it can be in there in the sleeping bag, as long as you sleep naked (counter-intuitive, I know) but wear a hat and gloves.  But don’t drink too much tea before going to bed because otherwise you might end up…

4. Crawling out of the snow hut stark naked, even though it’s -20°C outside.  Like I did.  Oh, except for boots.  There’s not a lot of wiggle room inside a snow hut, and it was way easier to just go out than to struggle with clothes.  I was surprised that I really didn’t feel cold at all once I got outside.  And it’s soooo much easier to sleep with an empty bladder than a full one.

5. Jade’s birth was so amazingly fast and easy, that within minutes of delivering her I actually said, “Well, that wasn’t so bad.  I could do that again.”  Maybe it was the endorphins…

6. In 2004, I participated in a singing competition grandly called “North of 60 Idol”.  It was organized by the Legion in Yellowknife as a fundraiser, but it drew a good crowd of competitors and filled the Legion hall with spectators every week.  Michael had to coax me to participate, and I was glad he did, especially when we ended up winning a drip to Disneyland in the end.

7. I can wiggle my right ear.  But not my left.

Now, to tag some friends!  Here are some folks I think would have fun with this:

Wow, I’m no longer a meme virgin!  *sniff*  I’ll never forget it.

You asked, take 2

11 Apr

This edition of reader Q&A is all about Jade.

My lovely friend Shannon asked:

What is the most important thing you hope to teach your child(ren)?

Ooh, good one!  There are so many things I want to teach them, of course, and what seems the most important changes depending on the circumstances, but one thing that I’ve had on my mind lately is having a positive outlook on life.  I want them to learn how to be cheerful, how to stay optimistic despite disappointments, and to minimize fruitless worrying. I don’t mean to say that we shouldn’t be realistic, or that we shouldn’t prepare for bad times… but isn’t a life of optimism a happier one than a life where one is always thinking about the next thing that could go wrong?  And worrying and pessimism take up so much useless energy that could be channelled into getting good things done!

Farley Flex was recently in Whitehorse, and I heard him speaking on this subject.  He’s an excellent speaker.  He believes that optimism is learned, but he thinks it’s learned in the first three years of life, when children feel loved and supported.  I don’t entirely agree with him; I think there’s a bigger window than three years to learn optimism, because I’m pretty sure I learned it when I was older, myself.  But the message about positive thinking and doing is exactly what I hope my kids will learn.

 

And now, from the very inspiration of this Q&A, the lovely and talented McMommy!

How did you come to choose Jade’s name? Was it a name you always liked? Does it have special meaning for you?

Michael and I struggled a long time to come up with names.  We didn’t know whether Jade would be a boy or a girl, so of course we had double the fun and frustration.  Sometimes we’d settle on something for a short while, only to find we’d outgrown it.  We never did decide on a boy’s name, but we agreed on “Jade Nahanni” for a girl a month or two ahead of schedule.

Michael was the one who suggested Nahanni.  It’s a beautiful river in the Northwest Territories (where we lived for the first four years of our marriage).  We rafted the South Nahanni River with Michael’s parents and some friends in the summer of 2003, starting at the world-famous Virginia Falls.  It was a wonderful trip, so the river is special to us.  But Nahanni as a name?  “Ridiculous!” I thought.  Over time, though, it grew on me, although I still wasn’t prepared to use it as a first name.

Michael went on to suggest rock names (because he loves rocks of all kinds) like Ruby and Jasper.  One day, the combination “Jade Nahanni” popped into my head.  Jade is an ornamental stone that is special to the Chinese and in fact the first part of my mom’s name means jade.  (The “Yu” in “Yu-Fang”, so my mom always calls her “Yu-Bao-Bao”.) Jade is also pretty Canadian, being the official gemstone of British Columbia.  So I liked Jade and it fit with Nahanni.  I IM-ed Micahel and asked him what he thought.  He immediately messaged back, “Love it!”  And that was that.

Whew!  Now that we’re expecting Baby #2, we’re back to square one!  Michael’s already suggested Ruby again, but having a name “series” just seems tacky to me.  Bleagh!  Besides, I’m starting to feel like this one might be a boy…

The waiting game

11 Apr

When I picked Jade up from daycare yesterday afternoon, they said she had a few more spots on her body that might be chicken pox.  Or, they might just be spots of dry skin, which she often gets.  They said they’d like it if I could get them checked out by a doctor.  That kind of doctor’s visit seemed pretty fruitless to me, so I elected to stay home with her today and observe.  I have observed that she seems perfectly normally behaved and she has a few more spots that might be chicken pox.  Or not.  Altogether, not very useful.

Now, call me crazy, but I would really like for this to be the chicken pox.  The younger you are, the (generally) milder chicken pox is, so it seems to me this would be a good time for her to get them.  I have a friend who got them as a baby, so mildly that he ended up getting them a second time (yes, it can happen), but I think Jade’s past that stage now.  I had chicken pox when I was 6 or 7 which is old enough to have really good aim for scratching those spots. And I have scar on my nosebridge to prove it.

I decided I didn’t want Jade to get the chicken pox vaccine since it’s unknown just how long the immunity lasts, and one can actually still get chicken pox, although a supposedly milder case.  Plus the vaccine has to be repeated every ten years.  To my mind, it’s better to just get them once, properly, when you’re young, and be done with it.

So, I’m still hoping this is it.

The only thing that really sucks is that I volunteered to provide half and hour of background music this evening for a fundraiser (a two-pronged fundraiser for the local Blue Feather Youth Centre and for Ramesh Ferris’s Cycle to Walk campaign to eradicate polio worldwide).  Unfortunately, I can’t take Jade with me now because if she is infected with chicken pox, she would actually be contagious now, even though she doesn’t have a full-blown rash yet.  You can’t just take a viral bomb of a child into a crowd; that would be immoral.  Norris was going to look after Jade while I performed, but he can’t even come over to babysit her at our house because he’s never had chicken pox before!  (Honestly, how many people our age haven’t had chicken pox?  Now he definitely should go and get immunized!)

I’ve called around to friends, but everyone’s either sick or unavailable, even though several are crazy like me and would be happy to expose their child to a potentially infectious little girl.  So it looks like I’m going to have to back out of this commitment tonight.  Why is it that things always happen when Michael is out of town?

On the plus side, our kitchen floor hasn’t been this clean in months.

You asked…

9 Apr

Hee hee!  Some fun stuff here!

MommyTime asked…

  1. What is one book you love and why?
  2. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you pick and why?
  3. And what’s something you looove to eat?

One book I love to read

Oooh, MommyTime, you asked me some toughies!  ONE book I love?  How to choose?!  It’s no secret that I am a huge fan of juvenile fiction; classics like The Secret Garden, Five Children and It, and A Little Princess I’ve read over and over again over the years, and I’ve also found many more modern tales that I love. 

But let’s see, if I had to choose something a little more mature, I’d probably pick Like Water for Chocolate.  It’s a romantic novel, but it has a fairy-tale flair to it that I can’t resist.  And it’s written like a cross between a cook-book and a diary.  What girl can resist good food (especially with chocolate in it!) and a little gossip?  I also love the idea of ones emotions flowing into ones creations, the way Tita’s flows into her cooking, inflaming the eaters of her food with the same feelings.  The Chinese believe in this, too; one should be happy and joyful when cooking because that energy is transferred into the dish.

Oooh, but then there’s The Time-Traveler’s Wife, and the recently discovered Thursday Next series.  Stop me now or I’ll never stop…

A place I’d like to travel

I was having some notions of travelling to Taiwan this year.  Taiwan is where my mother grew up, and where that whole side of the family still lives.  The last time I was there, I was about 6 years old, so I only have splashes of memories: waking up to the cock crowing, children teasing me and my sister through the screen door of my grandparents’ house, calling us “big nose”, bright red (hibiscus?) flowers, crowded streets on the back of my grandfather’s motorbike.

The last time I saw my maternal grandparents was when they came to visit us in Northern Ontario back in, hmm, 1993, perhaps?  My grandfather has since died, and I would love an opportunity to get to know my grandmother a bit before it’s too late.  Particularly with this pregnancy, though, I don’t know if going to Taiwan in high summer is a good idea.

And someday I want to go back to that little place in Mexico where my sister got married in November.  Maybe just with Michael this time.  *dreamy sigh*

Something I love to eat

Oh dear, again, how to choose?  You see, I looooove food, and I love such a variety of foods.  I sure have been having a lot of chocolate lately.  (Michael accuses me of making our future child chemically imbalanced, but I read a study somewhere that says pregnant moms who eat chocolate once a day have happier babies.  So there.  Pbththt!)  Right now, if I could choose one thing to have that absolutely looove, it would be my mom’s spring rolls.  She would make her own skins and it’s a ton of work to make the stuffing and then roll the darn things and then deep-fry them.  But damn!  They’re worth it.  If only we hadn’t been living apart for the last 14 years, I’m sure I would have learned by now how to make them just her way.

Thanks for the great questions, MommyTime!  I’m going to stop here for tonight — more answers to more questions next time! — because I really need to get some work done in the kitchen.  Michael’s away and Jade and I had sandwiches for supper because we were running late.  I need to create something for lunch tomorrow and plan something a little more complete for tomorrow night’s meal. 

That’s assuming we end up even going to work/daycare tomorrow, of course.  There’s chicken pox going around at the daycare and they think maybe Jade has it.  I’ll be counting spots in the morning…

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